annie,
thanks for letting me off the hook so easily.
Yes, this forum is a good place to respectfully present differing opinions; something forbidden to us as practicing JWs. I do enjoy a good debate.
I suppose that I have been away from the JW break for so long, that I forget how painful it is to many here. The fact is that time and good experiences in life do heal the pain.
I realize that there are many posting on this forum that have truly been hurt by the JW teachings; whole lives devoted to a belief that they must question at some point. My experiences with the JWs was bitter and emotionally devasting; however, I did not lose a loved one due to the blood issue, or anything similar. I lost a lifestyle and had to question my existence. So I built a new life and learned to fit in with the "real world". The reality of the situation for me, was that my life literally "blossomed"
But losing a loved one is far more devastating. Compared to some on this forum, my experiences were mild.
I have come very far in rebuilding my life. The wounds have healed, but I do not forget my roots.
If I can do it , so can others. If I can learn to think for myself and stand up to the Witness propaganda; so can others.
I have also developed a tough skin to anything the JWs may choose to through at me ( they keep their distance). I know how they think ( as we all do) and shut them down before they can get to first base. I have denied them ANY power in my life and have relegated them to a non entity; powerless. Hence my original comment that they are nothing more than a "nusaince".
regards, frank